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Reddit idiosyncratic Freegirl289 precocious asked, "Girls, what's the astir ridiculous happening you've ever done for a feline who intelligibly wasn't worthy it?" The stories they shared had my jaw connected the floor. Let's get into it:
1. "My ex. I got precise acrophobic 1 time erstwhile helium abruptly started texting less. I called him aggregate times retired of that concern. He yet picked up connected the seventh call, and helium told maine helium got into an mishap and was successful the hospital. I lived beauteous acold distant from him, and I was astir to onshore a immense woody for my company, truthful helium told maine not to interest and that helium would grip himself, but helium wouldn't beryllium capable to telephone me. I got excessively worried, and I near my work, and I rushed to my car and drove six hours consecutive to the hospital, wherever helium said helium was. I got there, and determination was nary grounds of him. I went to his home, and I recovered him with different chick. Gosh, I was truthful naive."
2. "I sat successful his level unsocial each nighttime (we didn't unrecorded together) portion helium went retired drinking with different woman. We'd agreed to conscionable up, but helium decided to conscionable this pistillate who was a 'friend' instead. He stayed retired for hours and past reacted angrily erstwhile I was understandably upset that he'd conscionable dumped maine successful his level and gone out, portion ignoring my texts. When helium yet did substance back, it was thing on the lines of, 'Why are you being truthful clingy?' Glad I got retired of that relationship."
3. "In precocious school, helium was my fellow astatine the time. He came to schoolhouse and said helium had a publication study owed the adjacent day, worthy 80% of his mark, and helium had wholly procrastinated and hadn't adjacent started. He conscionable accepted helium was going to neglect English and not graduate. I took the publication location that night, pulled an all-nighter, wrote the full report, and helium graduated from precocious schoolhouse due to the fact that of me. I was truthful excited to postgraduate unneurotic and commencement our lives. He ended up dumping maine connected prom night. It's ne'er worthy it, y'all."
4. "I erstwhile drove 3 hours round-trip successful the mediate of a snowstorm due to the fact that helium said helium was feeling truly down and needed me. When I got there, helium was playing video games with his friends, hardly looked up, and said, 'Oh, you really came.' I sat determination similar an idiot for 2 hours portion they ignored me, past drove backmost location crying the full way. He didn't adjacent accidental convey you. That was the infinitesimal I realized I had much emotion for him than respect for myself. Never again."
5. "Spent months readying for him to travel spot me, I researched level tickets, hotels, worked retired a ton to look bully capable for him (since helium waffled betwixt complimenting my assemblage and saying I was 'too fat' virtually wrong the aforesaid week), saved up money, and opened a question rewards recognition paper to bargain his summons since helium was disquieted astir money. Just for him to cancel the 1 happening helium was paying for, not to notation it for days and days, and go, 'Huh? Oh yeah, I'm not coming.' No existent explanation, nary connection to travel astatine a antithetic time. Things were kinda awkward until helium conscionable ghosted maine for a year, past came backmost with immoderate rambling connection astir however overmuch it wounded HIM to chopped maine disconnected and that usually helium doesn't attraction erstwhile helium ghosts people, but helium missed maine specifically. How romantic."
6. "I turned vegetarian for him — the benignant that doesn't adjacent devour eggs — and helium had the audacity to cheat connected maine with different non-vegetarian. I inactive get embarrassed occasionally for being truthful ridiculous."
7. "Ooooh boy. I utilized to thrust implicit an hr to different municipality each Sunday to prep his meals for the week due to the fact that helium was engaged with enactment and school. And volleyball. And going to the beach. And thing that wasn't really giving maine clip oregon attention."
8. "I had been dating immoderate feline for a mates of months. He had gotten a promotion astatine his job, truthful to celebrate, I baked him cookies from scratch, enactment them successful a cute box, and brought them to his house. Upon seeing the cookies, helium took a wound and past shed immoderate tears: 'No 1 has ever done thing similar this for maine before. You are truthful bully that I don't person it successful maine to support lying to you. I'm sorry, I've been seeing idiosyncratic other astatine the aforesaid clip arsenic you.' Me: 'Ah, I see...so the cookies of information person spoken.' Funny enough, helium texted maine similar a period aboriginal asking if I wanted to beryllium his 'mistress,' hahaha."
9. "I learned Japanese, arsenic his parent was from there, successful an effort for him to announcement my dedication to him and his family. He waved it disconnected and said I should beryllium learning a much utile language, similar Mandarin Chinese. I joined a three-month Mandarin Chinese people to get his validation again. When I revealed my studies to him, helium hardly reacted. I can't adjacent retrieve what helium said, conscionable my disappointment. I was lone 21 and a young dreamer; I don't regret it. In fact, I usage 1 of those languages successful my occupation now, and I'm joined to a nicer chap, truthful it's a blessed ending!"
10. "Bought him a $2,500 upland motorcycle adjacent though I recovered retired helium was cheating connected me."
11. "I paid for a autobus summons for him to spell spot his kids. He slept with his babe mama portion helium was there."
12. "I discontinue going to my therapist truthful that he'd beryllium disconnected the implicit two-year waiting database and get my spot. He ended up going 3 times."
13. "I made his resume for him that got tons of compliments from recruiters, applied to jobs for him, acceptable up interviews for him, lone for him to locomotion retired of 2 jobs and get fired from one. These were high-paying, mid-level bundle engineering jobs making six figures. Cleaned up his barf clip and clip again erstwhile helium would projectile vomit each implicit the location from drinking excessively much. One time, helium came moving into the bath portion I was peeing, conscionable spewing vomit from his rima and nose, truthful I had to leap up from the toilet, frankincense covering myself successful my ain piss truthful that helium could barf each implicit it."
"I bought his family's Christmas and day presents each year, oregon other we'd beryllium showing up to their location empty-handed. I spent hours buying and figuring retired thoughtful gifts that they ever loved. All that conscionable for him to spell astir telling radical I was an abusive golden digger. Then, erstwhile we separated, helium started telling radical I cheated connected him. Ah, well. The divorcement was finalized successful January. I've ne'er been happier!"
14. "Moved 800 miles distant from location to a spot I ne'er planned to determination to."
15. "I got a edifice country to conscionable up with my friend-with-benefits of similar 10 years (that I was truthful successful emotion with) who was successful from retired of municipality to sojourn his family. I waited for similar 4 hours portion helium kept texting maine that helium was astir there. I texted that I was leaving, and helium responded close aft I checked retired that helium was really connected his mode now. A twelvemonth later, I did it again! He really showed, but helium was inactive late. Then, different twelvemonth later, I really flew crossed the state to sojourn him and enactment with him for a week. I was really frightened helium wouldn't prime maine up from the airdrome and that I'd beryllium stuck determination connected my own. He really picked maine up, and it was a bully week together, and I sent him an engraved acquisition afterward."
"I spent a batch of wealth and evidently vigor connected him erstwhile it was evident from similar twelvemonth 2 that helium was ne'er going to reciprocate his feelings. He had told maine arsenic much, but ever insisted helium wasn't looking for a narration astatine that time; it wasn't me. It took a batch of therapy to yet locomotion distant from idiosyncratic who intelligibly wasn't into maine and conscionable liked the attraction and enactment I gave him. Classic anxious/avoidant attachment. Pro tip: Don't pursuit your FWB, and, uh, decidedly don't walk much than 10 years of your beingness doing it."
16. "We had been dating astir a month, and helium said helium wanted to devour healthier by eating astatine location more. So I bought, prepped, and marinated two-person portions of assorted steadfast meals astatine my ain location and past filled his fridge and freezer with them. The adjacent day, I went with him to assistance his ma move. After that, I couldn't get a clasp of him for a fewer days, and erstwhile I yet did, helium told maine he'd gotten backmost unneurotic with his ex."
17. "I wrote, recorded, and produced a opus for him connected his day for him to cheat connected maine a week later. I'm ne'er penning a opus for a antheral again."
18. "Took 1 of his assemblage classes for him due to the fact that I wanted him to succeed. What a discarded of my clip that ungrateful swine was."
19. "I prepared a full meal for his birthday: grilled chickenhearted stuffed manicotti, Black Angus ail bread, and crockery with each the fixings. I prepped everything. I brought it to enactment successful containers and baggies (croutons, cukes, cheese, etc.) to springiness to him for his birthday. He had ever said helium didn't person clip for home-cooked meals. I thought I was successful love, and this was my accidental to triumph my mode done his tummy by showing him I cared. I came successful connected my time off, timed it close truthful helium would beryllium disconnected work, and had written the cooking instructions beforehand truthful helium could conscionable spell location and popular everything successful the oven. He returned my dishes a fewer days later, thanked maine for the delicious food, and said helium and his woman truly enjoyed it. Yeah."
21. "I asked him to determination successful with maine erstwhile helium became homeless/got evicted, and past aft we broke up and helium moved backmost home, helium past said unspeakable things to maine and blamed maine for everything. He would say, 'You request to beryllium you emotion me,' and erstwhile I asked wherefore my offering him structure erstwhile helium needed it wasn't considered impervious of my love, helium ever said, 'It's irrelevant.'"
22. "I drove an hr to spot a situationship due to the fact that helium was having a hard time and was bittersweet and truly wanted to spot maine (after ghosting maine for 2 months. I know, I'm an idiot) — each for him to 'accidentally' autumn dormant and not reply his telephone oregon the door. I had to thrust backmost location erstwhile I was expected to walk the night. That was the astir fucking embarrassing happening I've done."
23. "I was connected a household vacation, and helium texted maine to travel over, truthful I drove 2 hours to his flat aft my parents fell asleep. Once I got there, helium told maine his tummy wounded and that I should go. I drove backmost astir 1 hr into the thrust erstwhile helium called maine to accidental that helium was feeling better. Did I thrust backmost again? You stake I did. We spent similar 3 hours together. I drove backmost 2 hours to the household vacation, made it determination by 7 a.m. earlier my household woke up."
24. "Begging him to cleanable his shit-splattered toilet (that hadn't been cleaned successful months, probably) truthful I could pee successful peace."
25. "When helium got fto spell from his job, I offered to wage much towards rent, nary questions asked, nary strings attached. I was his biggest cheerleader and encouraged him to clasp retired for the champion job, which took 4 months (this was the 2nd clip I'd done this). Well, helium ended up getting an astonishing occupation astatine an astonishing institution with astonishing benefits, and helium was astir making doubly arsenic overmuch arsenic I was. A fewer months into that job, I was sitting connected the sofa erstwhile helium came implicit with a spreadsheet, saying I hadn't been paying my just stock (I person pupil loans and a car loan, and I americium 10 years younger, too). So, aft each that enactment I gave him and each the wealth he's making now, I person to wage 10% much successful rent each month. When I brought up the issues I had with it, helium was like, 'Oh, I didn't deliberation you were 1 of those girls.' WTF."
"The flat was mostly each his things, too, and helium worked from home. I wasn't location overmuch since I commute for work. I besides ne'er asked to beryllium reimbursed for each those months I paid extra!!! Just 1 of the galore behaviors I enactment up with for immoderate godforsaken reason."
26. "I drove 4 hours to astonishment a feline with his favourite repast once. He ate it, said thanks, past asked maine to permission due to the fact that his boys were coming implicit for FIFA. I inactive finished the dishes earlier I left."
27. And: "Spend $5k connected him successful ONE MONTH (I was 19, and helium was 35) 💀💀💀."
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