Women Are Sharing The "Societal Expectations" They've Told To F*ck Off, And Their Rebellious Energy Is Absolutely Everything

As women, we are perpetually told what we should (and should not) attraction astir by society, our parents, our jobs, etc. So erstwhile Reddit idiosyncratic TheKinkyChef007 asked: "What’s thing nine tells women to attraction astir that you’ve stopped caring astir completely?" truthful galore women came unneurotic to stock their experiences. Here's what they said below:

1. "Grey hair! I don't attraction that my hairsbreadth is turning grey, and I find it amusive and beauteous astatine the aforesaid time."

2. "Whether men find maine charismatic successful public. My ma told me, arsenic a teenager, to ever person my hairsbreadth and constitution done due to the fact that you ne'er cognize who you'll tally into. But she didn't mean it astir friends oregon colleagues, but alternatively a cute boy. I person a vivid representation of being 15 astatine McDonald's with my mom, and she saw maine glimpse astatine the teenage cashier. She said, 'Maybe he'd inquire for your fig if you were dressed up. That's wherefore it's important to enactment your look connected each morning.' And each I could deliberation astir was however small I cared if that cashier thought I was cute. I conscionable wanted my iced coffee."

"As an adult, I enactment effort into my quality due to the fact that it makes maine consciousness confident. But if I person to measurement retired of the location successful leggings and a large T-shirt due to the fact that I'm moving errands oregon simply don't person the energy, I nary longer interest astir whether I'm inactive attractive. The lone men who've approached maine successful public, anyway, were weird pick-up artists playing a numbers game."

—brielarstan

3. "Getting joined and having kids. I’ve ne'er wanted to, and for a agelong time, I thought determination was thing incorrect with maine for feeling that way. But now, I conscionable don’t care."

5. "Appealing to the antheral regard for 'professionalism.' If a antheral looks nonrecreational successful it, truthful bash I."

6. "Coddling men. My ma tells maine I request to beryllium kinder to my fellow oregon other he’ll permission me. Sorry, not sorry, I’m not going to praise a antheral for doing the dishes. If the roles were reversed, I’d 100% beryllium getting hounded to get my beingness together."

—SpicyL3mons

7. "Also, I've stopped worrying astir whether I americium seen arsenic excessively overmuch oregon excessively needy successful a relationship. If I'm excessively much, spell find less. If my needs are excessively much, past you aren't my person. Got bushed of shrinking myself for a man."

8. "Getting older. I mislaid my champion person erstwhile she was 37 years old, and it truly showed maine however important it is to beryllium grateful for life."

—soulstrippedbare

9. "Stretch marks! I person truthful galore and tried everything to get escaped of them, yet I conscionable decided not to attraction and judge them arsenic they are."

10. "Doing hobbies and activities successful bid to find a man. I've ne'er understood wherefore radical presume that whenever a pistillate does anything, it's due to the fact that she's trying to pull a man. I've taken up ballroom dancing classes, and my mum inactive asks maine if I americium hoping to find a antheral there. I had to punctual her that I'm asexual arsenic fuck, truthful wherefore would I privation to bash that?"

—Sarrebas89

11. "Being an 'independent woman.' Nah, I emotion having a partner. I emotion having idiosyncratic to thin on. I emotion knowing that I tin beryllium connected him. I emotion not feeling similar I person to bash it all. I emotion giving up power and letting him grip the things helium is amended astatine than me."

12. "Dressing for my age. I don't privation to beryllium frumpy! I wasn't calved to beryllium frumpy! Maybe that's wherefore immoderate radical are amazed erstwhile they find retired my existent age? If radical person a occupation with however I formal oregon the colors I usage — lately, my favourite formal is simply a agleam yellowish 1 — I don't care."

—ADF21a

13. "Wearing a bra. There are definite situations I will, but not definite I 'need' one."

14. "Keeping the bid and smiling done it all. Life is exhausting, and my encephalon is successful overdrive. It’s hard to clasp affectional space, astatine my ain expense, for everyone astatine times, and there’s thing for maine to truly grin about."

—Azurebold

15. And finally, "Having breasts, afloat stop. I had a treble mastectomy to level 5 years agone due to the fact that of bosom crab — I was 32. Being thrown into medically induced menopause astatine property 33 (perimenopause? Never heard of her) means that not lone americium I regularly uncomfortable successful my assemblage connected a regular ground WITHOUT wearing a bra oregon worrying astir my silhouette, I conscionable don’t attraction astir whether radical stare, whether men find maine bang-able, oregon whether they deliberation I’m transitioning, or… immoderate thoughts astatine each that they person astir what I look like. Women are not live to beryllium simply decorative. When beingness happens to people, asking them to erase each traces of it is weird AF. I americium not astir to unreal crab didn’t happen, oregon that it didn’t alteration me, oregon that I americium ageless. Fuck virtually each of that."

Women, is determination thing that nine tells you to attraction astir that you’ve stopped caring astir completely? Tell america what it is and wherefore successful the comments oregon successful the anonymous signifier below: