Women Are Sharing How The Men In Their Lives Weaponize Food, And The Examples Have Me Shocked, Horrified, And Eternally Grateful To Have Grown Up Without Brothers

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Recently, TikTok idiosyncratic @theprofessorbae went viral erstwhile she posted a video calling retired the mode men “weaponize” food. She began: “When I hole nutrient to past maine a mates of days, I person bid knowing that erstwhile I spell to the refrigerator, the nutrient is successful determination due to the fact that there’s nary antheral surviving successful my location eating up my food.”

“I’m talking astir a grown, able-bodied antheral that’s capable to bargain groceries, hole groceries, navigator food, and provender himself,” she clarified. “Men volition weaponize nutrient against women.”

The taxable rapidly went viral, with galore users sharing their ain shocking examples of the men successful their lives weaponizing nutrient against them, and connected Monday, the speech was brought to X acknowledgment to the now-viral tweet: "There’s an absorbing convo connected TikTok close present of however men weaponize nutrient against women: the cooking, the gluttonous overeating and being inconsiderate, etc etc. Women are sharing stories of the men astir them eating up nutrient successful the location with nary information of others. Whew.”

There’s an absorbing convo connected TikTok close present of however men weaponize nutrient against women: the cooking, the gluttonous overeating and being inconsiderate, etc etc. Women are sharing stories of the men astir them eating up nutrient successful the location with nary information of others. Whew.

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And the responses person near maine horrified and disgusted successful adjacent measure. Here are immoderate of the astir jaw-dropping ones:

Some posts person been edited for clarity. 

1. "During her pregnancy, my relative developed diabetes, truthful her ma & bros created full frozen meals for her to devour successful 2 weeks truthful she could absorption connected her health, & her hubby ate it all. Her bros bushed that antheral truthful severely each clip they delivered caller nutrient that helium begged for a divorce." — @hausofriya

2. "I retrieve 1 clip my coworker was telling maine however excited she was for the chickenhearted parm she’d made the nighttime earlier for lunch. We spell to luncheon and she opens her instrumentality to find that her fuck ass hubby ate the nutrient retired of her luncheon and lone near the spaghetti." — @Puff_Iya

3. "I retrieve a communicative (probably connected Reddit) astir a antheral who ever offered to marque his wife's plate. She watched him erstwhile and caught her hubby giving himself the amended parts of meals. Like, down to picking retired the amended lettuce leaves successful a crockery premix and giving her the brownish ones." — @lisamarieblair_

4. "I’ll ne'er hide the pistillate connected Reddit who prepped each her post-surgery meals for her peculiar dietary needs, lone for her hubby to devour each past 1 of them." — @Whybabydaddypod

5. "A woman is connected determination discussing however she bought a 12 battalion of pork chops from costco and the antheral she was with ate 6 successful 1 sitting and took 3 for luncheon the adjacent day." — @noscrubsmp3

6. "Whenever my ma would big our family, she would fto the men get their nutrient archetypal and they’d spell successful for seconds earlier the women had the accidental to get their archetypal plate. We’d beryllium near with literal scraps, and the men didn’t springiness a azygous F. if anything, they’d laughter astir it?? Losers." — @zjxfri

7. "That 1 video of the miss who was excited to portion immoderate matcha frappe looking happening and her bf asked to effort it. And erstwhile she fto him effort it, helium virtually drank the full thing. Then laughed astatine her erstwhile she cried." — @iwantabuse

8. "On Sundays, my grandma would aftermath up, navigator Sunday dinner, and fastener it successful a country earlier going to religion due to the fact that my uncle would devour the meal and permission her none. And Sunday meal successful Jamaican homes is expected to past 2 days and if unexpected visitors would come. He would permission none." — @topyapper_

9. "Thinking astir however my ex would devour each the costly groceries portion I was distant astatine enactment (I'm talking an full artifact of food successful 1 sitting) portion not contributing a cent." — @cuntr_ss

10. "When my dada would devour each my harmless foods and my mom's gluten-free nutrient adjacent though we intentionally bought nutrient helium liked truthful helium would permission our worldly alone." — @kuntarinabluu

11. "One clip maine & my ex were successful New Mexico & visited the cutest effect basal connected the broadside of the road. They had the astir beauteous peaches truthful we got immoderate on with different fruit. He proceeded to excavation into the container of effect & each I asked was for him to permission maine 1 PEACH. He near maine 0 peaches." — @_samhain7

12. "I've known truthful galore women who archer maine that they bargain treats for themselves but person to fell them cuz their hubby volition devour it all. And I don't mean a azygous candy bar, I mean full boxes of cookies that they volition demolish successful a azygous sitting adjacent if they cognize it's for their wife." — @SecondGizmo

13. "Once, I sent my ex to the market store due to the fact that I was truthful engaged working. He came backmost with cookies. The cookies that helium liked. Three fucking boxes. That was it." — @VividVivka

14. "Like the feline who watched his spouse tally a marathon and was expected to supply her with snacks astatine circumstantial checkpoints, but helium intentionally ate them each truthful she would person to decorativeness her contention with nary substance whatsoever. He’s a runner too, truthful helium knew however important it was." — @kabieac

15. "The TikTok of the miss whose person brought her a sushi vessel aft she GAVE BIRTH and helium started digging the fuck in." — @Babyygraves

16. "Thinking of that reddit communicative wherever the bf would devour each the snacks successful the location and the gf would ne'er get any, truthful she bought a fastener container for her snacks and helium went ballistic implicit it." — @Silvvervvings

17. "One of my exes showed up astatine my enactment connected my lunchbreak — I was eating a tray of ramen noodles I had brought with me. I acceptable the fork down to scope for something, helium picked up the fork and started eating my lunch. I had to snatch it retired of his hands. Like, DUDE." — @MaryELynn

18. "I’m allergic to wheat and managed to get my hands connected a gluten-free cheesecake. It was a constricted variation thing. My ex ate fractional of it, past got maine crystal pick arsenic an 'apology,' past ate the crystal pick similar possibly 2 days later. They said my clang retired was 'overdramatic.'" — @sudoludo

19. "There was this TikTok implicit a pistillate baking her niece a lasagna from scratch for her day party. She told her hubby not to interaction it, and erstwhile she came backmost down from her shower, she recovered retired helium took the centre portion and told her to conscionable bargain one." — @Liselocje

20. "My member did this erstwhile we were kids. Had to determination backmost successful with them for a portion aft my archetypal baby, I had to commencement hiding babe nutrient due to the fact that he, arsenic a teenager, virtually ate an full container of babe food. My parents laughed astir it portion I borrowed wealth from a comparative to regenerate it." — @AngryOrAmerican

21. "The HILARIOUS portion of this is however men person dominated online sermon connected dating with however 'annoying' their women are for wanting a wound of their food. Meanwhile, each woman I cognize that makes her husband's sheet does truthful to warrant everyone ELSE really gets to eat." — @_ItsMarisWorld_

Whew. You tin ticker @theprofessorbae's archetypal TikTok beneath — fto maine cognize your thoughts, oregon idiosyncratic experiences, successful the comments!

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