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1. "When she bailed connected our Euro travel to alternatively spell with immoderate joined feline she'd been sleeping with for a mates of weeks. She didn't recognize wherefore I was upset. But the joke's connected her. I went solo and had the champion clip connected my own."
2. "When she sent maine a recommended podcast that claimed my unwellness didn't beryllium and each medications for it were poisons."
3. "When my dada died suddenly, she abruptly distanced herself and started avoiding me. Then, 3 years later, she popped backmost up retired of the bluish and said, 'I'm truly atrocious astir checking successful with people! I inactive see you a friend!'"
4. "When she decided, astatine the past minute, to articulation my husband's team, who were traveling to little a client. Hubs calls maine astatine the accomplishment airdrome to fto maine cognize he's foregoing the edifice and volition beryllium staying astatine my dad's. He said she was excessively flirty and wanted to get unneurotic aft the meeting. She sat beside him connected the formation and kept leaning into him and patting his arm."
5. "She had aggravated 'main quality syndrome' and acted entitled to my clip and energy, nary substance what was going connected successful my life. Mind you, we were some successful our 30s and married. It was astir similar she thought we were successful a sitcom, and others successful her beingness conscionable existed to physique her up, capable her time, oregon assistance her execute her dreams, etc. It yet clicked that we weren't existent friends erstwhile she introduced maine to 1 of her newer friends who seemed to hatred maine close disconnected the bat and kept dropping weird, passive-aggressive comments astir trust, my availability, etc. Her friend's cognition truly threw me. My 'friend' picked up connected however uncomfortable it was and talked to maine afterwards to code her friend's behavior. Still, the mode she spun it made it wide the crushed the different pistillate didn't similar maine was due to the fact that my 'friend' had been talking severely astir maine whenever I was not disposable to bash her favors."
6. "When she said my divorcement triggered her, and truthful she needed to spell no-contact for six months. It was the archetypal clip I had needed her successful my full life. After 32 years of friendship, that's erstwhile I realized it was one-sided."
7. "When she said my accomplishments were not due to the fact that of my hard enactment but were fixed to maine due to the fact that I'm pretty."
8. "When she moved crossed the state and became a conservative. Despite what radical say, I can't beryllium friends with idiosyncratic who has polar other governmental beliefs."
9. "When she didn't invitation maine to her wedding. We've been, oregon truthful I thought, champion friends since 5th grade. She called maine close aft she got engaged and showed maine the ringing — each the affectional worldly you archer a bully friend. Then 1 day, I'm texting her, and she tells maine she's getting joined successful a mates of weeks, but instantly says she's conscionable having a civilian wedding. Awesome! I'm blessed for her and accidental I privation I could beryllium there, and I'd emotion to spot photos. Then, the time of her wedding, I spot she has a full wedding party. Maid of honor, bridesmaids, household is invited, and there's an after-party… I saw each this connected Instagram. So, yeah. I conjecture I wasn't arsenic bully a person to her arsenic she was to me."
10. "She got joined and told maine they went to the metropolis hall. Months later, I saw pictures of her wedding and was shocked to spot that it took spot astatine a religion and had a reception. We did not person a falling retired and were adjacent friends astatine the time, but for immoderate reason, she decided to exclude maine from each of this. Not lone that, but we had been promising each different since people schoolhouse that we'd beryllium each other's maid of honor. The pictures I saw included idiosyncratic other arsenic the maid of honor. I felt truthful betrayed and hurt. I did face her, and she acted similar she did thing incorrect and tried to gaslight me. The matrimony lasted 3 months, and our relationship ended."
11. "When I got dumped connected my birthday, I texted her, 'I conscionable truly request my friends close now,' and she near maine connected work and went to a water enactment with my ex."
12. "I recovered retired she was having an matter with my sister's husband."
13. "When she 'helped' maine cleanable retired my bath and closet and stole immoderate symptom meds I had leftover from a surgery. She besides kept bugging maine to determination in, and I said perfectly nary way. She was besides a fiscal leech!! She ne'er had wealth to wage for anything. I chopped her disconnected aft that and went nary contact."
14. "I fto her enactment astatine my spot erstwhile she was susceptible and had obscurity other to go, and she attempted to slumber with my boyfriend. Not lone that, but portion I was letting her stay, she was texting our different friend, gossiping astir however boring it is to beryllium astatine my spot (she had obscurity other to unrecorded astatine the time)."
15. "She ghosted maine for astir 3 months, past tried to amusement backmost up arsenic if thing had happened. No explanation, nary apology, nothing, conscionable poof backmost again. The worst portion is that she claimed to person nary hint arsenic to wherefore I was upset."
16. "When she wouldn't halt insulting maine and past insisting she was 'just being honest!' She would accidental horrendous things and marque maine cry, but wouldn't halt adjacent erstwhile I tried explaining she was hurting my feelings. So, 1 day, I conscionable straight-up blocked her. She harassed maine for a agelong portion earlier giving up."
17. "When she moved successful with my ex-boyfriend a week aft we broke up."
18. "I would ever scope retired and marque plans, but she ever cancels. Last minute. Day of. An hr before. She's ace flaky, and I realized I couldn't beryllium bothered to discarded my clip anymore. If you're friends, you marque clip and abstraction for 1 another. She didn't."
19. "When I FaceTimed with my kid, who was astatine his dad’s location (we were successful the mediate of a contentious divorce), and she was successful the inheritance laughing with my ex's caller girlfriend, whom helium had near maine for."
20. "She would practically bully maine successful beforehand of different radical and enactment similar being friends with maine was truthful terrible, similar I was truthful annoying. But past she would suffer it if I adjacent hinted astatine perchance having different person successful my life. When I started dating, she mislaid it connected maine and made maine take betwixt her and dating. I conscionable realized she didn't privation to beryllium friends with me; she wanted power implicit me."
21. "When she got unneurotic with my ex. They person kids unneurotic now. That's a biiiig fuck youuuu buddyyyyyyy."
22. "The lone clip she would scope retired was to speech astir her latest lover. Aside from that, she ne'er asked maine astir my beingness updates, and if I told her thing astir me, she wouldn't reply and would shade maine for different 3 months."
23. "She ghosted maine aft being champion friends for 7 years, but stayed successful interaction with my brother, who she had a crush on, and gave my ma a Christmas card. It wounded worse than immoderate breakup ever has."
24. "When she told maine I wasn't acting excited capable for her 2 weeks earlier her wedding — the aforesaid week I recovered retired my mom's crab had returned and was terminal."
25. "When she made up a implicit prevarication down my backmost to ruin my marriage. She called my hubby without my cognition and told him I was having an affair…which I wasn't and ne'er had. I inactive can't recognize wherefore idiosyncratic would bash thing similar that."
26. And: "She conscionable disappeared. 20 years of friendship, and she ghosted me. It's been 3 years oregon so, and I inactive don't cognize what happened. Did I bash something? Did I accidental thing wrong? How bash you spell from plans unneurotic each play to nothing?"
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