Two Guy Friends Had An Unexpected Threesome, And 22 More Stories From People Who Shared What Happened After They Had Sex With A Friend

If you clicked connected this post, you're messy, and I emotion that.

So let's get close into it. Recently, connected r/AskReddit, idiosyncratic raskolnikoovv asked, "People who had enactment with their champion friend, how's the concern now?" Here's what radical said:

1. "It got complicated, but we some got implicit it. When helium started dating someone, not agelong after, she didn’t privation america to beryllium friends anymore, truthful helium stopped talking to maine for a while."

"He came backmost erstwhile they broke up, and we were adjacent again. We were inactive adjacent for a agelong time, but erstwhile we some got married, we people conscionable drifted isolated and stopped talking. Didn’t talk for a fewer years and recovered retired helium passed from crab not agelong ago. Heartbroken since."

—mungkitty

2. "Well, 19 years agone I asked her retired connected a date, and to the time 4 years aboriginal I asked her to wed me. She said nary some times, but specified is life."

—amous-Example-8332

3. "Was caput implicit heels for her. Asked her retired 1 night. She said no. She didn’t privation to screw up our friendship. I said, 'That’s cool. We tin inactive beryllium friends, and I volition prosecute different romanticist interests.'"

"She said she was going to beryllium the champion wingman I ever had. Eight months later, we moved into a four-bedroom location unneurotic with 2 of our friends. Things had been beauteous chill up to that point. Until 1 day, she invited 1 of her coworkers implicit to spell to the beach. I deed it disconnected with her friend. She gets jealous. That was 13 years ago. I americium blessed to accidental that I person been happily joined to her coworker for the past six years. But we some miss our friend. Neither maine nor my woman person talked to her successful implicit a decade."

—Dr_L_Church

4. "I'm gay, she's a lesbian. We were bored and wanted to peek implicit the obstruction to spot if the writer is greener."

"I'm inactive gay. She's inactive a lesbian. We don't speech overmuch due to the fact that I moved crossed the country, but we were bully friends for galore years."

—shawnwarnerwrites

5. "Lasted 3 months. All of my property traits became 'weird,' immature, and annoying. Went into therapy due to the fact that I thought I was the problem."

"She told each of our friends that she was going to dump maine but was waiting 'cause she didn’t privation to 'mess maine up.' My gramps died, and she got drunk and called maine astatine the aftermath to say, 'I cognize this is shitty timing, but we request to extremity this.' Dodged a bullet-sized projectile."

—Bright-Outcome1506

6. "Getting joined successful a mates of weeks, and it is by acold the healthiest narration I've been in."

—dedweightnoob

7. "Eh. Kind of awkward. We stayed friends for a fewer years but not arsenic close. A mates years later, helium asked maine to beryllium successful his wedding."

"I wasn’t comfy with it, and ended up not going astatine each aft his woman told maine astir however they had some ‘saved themselves for marriage’ and however peculiar it would beryllium to cognize they’ll some lone person ever been with the other. Noped retired aft that."

—Some_word_some_wow

8. "He stayed with my mom, and I americium nary longer invited astatine Thanksgiving."

—Indicarpedeim

9. "We’ve been unneurotic for 11 years and are happily married."

"We tried to spell our abstracted ways. I took his virginity, wanted him to explore, and not clasp him back. But that didn’t matter, we were inseparable."

—Flow3rPal

10. "We're inactive friends, she's inactive lesbian, but I bash get booty called erstwhile she's single."

—xSuperZer0x

11. "I was successful emotion with this miss passim precocious school, which for america was 2004-2008... We some went to antithetic colleges and beingness took america abstracted ways."

"She was 1 of my oldest friends, and I thought I had near that successful the past. Cut to 2024, and we reconnect for the archetypal clip since COVID. We autumn into an aged signifier of seeing each other, talking each the time. We discussed feelings for each other, and we are present dating, and person been for astir a year. I person ne'er been happier successful a relationship. We really didn't slumber with each different until aft it was official, but if you had told 14-year-old maine I'd inactive person her successful my beingness arsenic a person successful 2025, I'd beryllium stoked. And if you told 14-year-old maine I would beryllium dating her, and we were talking astir marriage, I would ne'er judge you. I consciousness fortunate that it worked retired for maine due to the fact that I cognize it doesn't for a batch of people."

—xbuffalo666x

12. "Three kids. Twenty-four years later. Currently paying $130K positive for assemblage tuitions, but precise overmuch successful love."

—anonymouslyHere4fun

13. "We hooked up for 2 oregon 3 weeks and decided that we were amended arsenic friends."

"Broke up successful the astir affable mode imaginable and went backmost to champion friends similar thing ever happened. She went from consecutive to afloat lesbian the time aft we broke up. 15+ years later, I'm inactive getting teased by each my friends that I made her a lesbian lol. Still bully friends tho!"

—Muriqui91

14. "She came onto me. Used maine for astir a month, near maine for a adjacent person of mine."

"Destroyed our relationship with some her and my friend. She came backmost a fewer months aboriginal wanting to marque up aft each that heartbreak and drama. Told her to fuck off… Never spoke to her again. We were champion friends. This was each successful college. I felt utilized and manipulated. I conscionable consciousness atrocious for her now."

—Ok_Solid188

15. "We were champion friends for 8 years. Never azygous astatine the aforesaid time, perpetually successful each other’s lives. Got drunk 1 night, and she made the archetypal move."

"Told her I don’t bash hookups, and if this is thing that was gonna continue, we needed to determine rapidly if it was a summertime fling and determination on, oregon if it would enactment agelong term. She ended it a fewer months later. I americium wholly child-free. She was connected the fence. We gave each different abstraction and time. Things went backmost to the mode they were earlier we started dating. Friendship was astir similar it ne'er paused. A fewer months later, astatine a friend's moving-away party, she made a move. (Noticing a inclination present lol.) I reciprocated. Told her the adjacent day, my stance hasn’t changed, and won’t. She said OK, and she thought astir it, said nary 1 had ever presented being childf-ree arsenic a superior beingness option. (She was raised LDS.) She said she wanted me, and let’s springiness it a superior try. I projected past September, we are getting joined successful May. I’m truthful excited."

—spacemusclehampster

16. "We dated for 2 years. I truly thought she was the one. I haven't seen her since the breakup."

—BatEnvironmental7232

17. "We're friendly. It led to immoderate months of a weird, stuck-in-the-middle situation. Then a beauteous toxic play of time. Then we got past everything and had a steadfast relationship again."

"We don't unrecorded precise adjacent to each different anymore, truthful it's hard to beryllium arsenic adjacent arsenic we were, but it's healthy. We besides some got into superior relationships wherever we didn't truly cognize each other's important others, truthful it wasn't doing anyone favors for america to beryllium FaceTiming oregon texting each the time. I inactive deliberation it was worthy it. The existent concern was ever benignant of inevitable. It's hard for other enactment friendships to enactment precise adjacent erstwhile you're successful a relationship. So astatine slightest we gave it a shot."

—kraftj87

18. "Divorced. Every occupation she ever had is idiosyncratic else’s fault. I should’ve paid attraction alternatively of doing what felt good."

—NOT-packers-fan2022

19. "I was successful emotion with her, and it was beauteous wide she did not reciprocate."

"I moved states away, and we stopped talking for a while, and I moved connected and started dating someone. My person reached retired to me, and we started talking again. I went backmost to sojourn my ma a fewer weeks aft that, and we met up. She confessed to having feelings for me, and I was PISSED. All the feelings I had came close backmost aft we started talking, but I dismissed them, and her confessing to maine made maine recognize I had to interruption up with my existent girlfriend. (This portion sucked due to the fact that I had told my existent woman my person and I were JUST friends.) I felt similar the biggest portion of shit, but I knew it wasn't just to anyone involved. We conscionable bought a location and adopted a dog, truthful it worked retired successful the end."

—makinamiexe

20. "I'll admit it was perfect, and we were engaged until I decided I knew what was champion for her and ended things. This was 15 years ago. She was successful college, I was disabled retired of the subject with nary prospects, and had a genitor who ever told maine however overmuch of a loser I was, and that everything atrocious successful their beingness was due to the fact that of me, etc. I bought into it, and conscionable felt similar I was a pb weight."

"I respected this pistillate immensely. Loved her to the satellite and back. Still, I was truthful terrified of letting her down that I did conscionable that. All I had to bash was speech to her, and God unsocial knows however things mightiness person been different; if I conscionable explained however I felt, she astir apt would've told maine I was being an idiot and kissed distant the demons.

Instead, I left. Now I unrecorded my beingness a time astatine a time, and I perceive her sanction successful each bushed of my heart. I emotion her to this day, and garbage to scope crossed the years adjacent to accidental hullo due to the fact that she doesn't merit that from me. My bosom is steadfast arsenic tin be, and truthful empty. 

She's joined now, and I would ne'er hazard adjacent the slightest shingle to her beingness these days."

—corvanus

21. "Haven't spoke to them successful years."

—factor56

22. "Friends since we were children. After years of asking, she yet said yes."

We dated for a small implicit a year. It was a rocky breakup. Life happens. She was joined and divorced. I unrecorded my beingness mostly distant from home. We conscionable precocious reconnected. Not looking for anything, conscionable privation my champion person back."

—darkstar587

23. And finally:

"I, a male, had a MFM threesome with my champion friend, who is besides male. It was awesome. A random miss who stayed precocious astatine the enactment cuddled betwixt america arsenic we watched a random Adam Sandler drama movie, and my champion person fell asleep. She started to changeable me, and we began having sex, and past she shook my champion person awake to articulation in. Yes, we Eiffel Towered. She laughed and thought it was great. Still champion friends to this day."

—Time-Ebb-8407

Now, I'd similar to perceive from you. If you had enactment with a friend, wherever does your narration basal now? Let america cognize successful the comments.