The Internet Is Absolutely Melting Down Over This Guy Who Might Go To His Sister's Wedding Without His Wife

A Reddit idiosyncratic from the r/amithejerk subreddit precocious went viral for sharing his predicament involving his sister, who is getting married, and his wife, who is NOT invited to the wedding.

Here's the afloat story: "I (30, male) person been joined to my woman (29, female) for 3 years, unneurotic for 10. We’ve had a large narration overall."

"A mates years ago, my wife’s champion person was getting joined and my woman was the maid of honor. The contented was that 1 of the bridesmaids was my assemblage ex. Our breakup had been messy, and the bridesmaid didn’t privation maine astatine the wedding. When I recovered retired I wasn’t invited to the wedding due to the fact that of that, I was truly hurt."

"My woman did inquire maine if she could inactive spell since it was her champion friend’s wedding, and I said yes due to the fact that it was her champion friend."

"It was a destination wedding implicit a weekend. I felt beauteous down portion she was gone, and erstwhile she came back, she saw I was inactive feeling down and apologized to me. I told her it was ok. A fewer months later, adjacent the bride apologized to me, and I said it was fine."

"It’s been 2 years since, and my sister is getting joined successful a fewer months. She’s my thrust oregon die, we’re truly adjacent and she asked maine to beryllium her antheral of honor. She besides wants maine to locomotion her down the aisle and bash the begetter girl creation with her since our dada passed away. So I’ve got a batch of important responsibilities."

"But my sister told maine she doesn’t privation my woman astatine her wedding. She said the wedding would beryllium ruined if my woman came. I was truly amazed and benignant of shocked erstwhile she told maine that."

"My woman and my sister are really close, but erstwhile my woman talked to her, my sister said she inactive likes her, but this is simply a acquisition my woman has to larn for attending that wedding I wasn’t invited to 2 years ago."

"My woman is truly bittersweet and I don’t consciousness large astir it. But this is my sister’s large day, and I privation to beryllium determination for her 100%. What should I do? I truly privation to be the wedding."

Yes, You would beryllium the jerk. Your sister has nary spot 'teaching [your wife] a lesson,' period. If you privation to beryllium petty and permission your woman retired due to the fact that of the wedding you weren’t invited to, yes, you would beryllium the jerk," user Busy-Bumblebee5556 said.

"You and your woman person either resolved this issue, successful which lawsuit determination is nary issue, oregon you’re inactive seething with resentment implicit it, successful which lawsuit you should divorcement your wife. Your sister is not your ruler, she’s not your boss, she’s not your mother. Your sister needs to butt retired of your marriage."

"Who the fuck would fto their sister bash this to their wife? Tell your sister her revenge program is petty AF. Your woman deserves amended than you if you be the wedding," idiosyncratic Dramatic_Wealth8638 wrote.

"This is thing your sister needs to enactment retired of. I would suggest explaining to your sister that what happened was regrettable, but it is successful the past, and her adjacent making this proposition has reopened immoderate aged wounds," idiosyncratic Prechrchet wrote.

"I would besides suggest that either some of you attend, oregon neither of you attend. Your spouse should travel earlier anyone and everyone else, period."

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