People Sharing The Things That Sound Attractive, But Actually Deealing With Them Proves Not To Be

Recently, AO_KinkyCouple asked r/AskReddit, "What's considered charismatic until you really person to woody with it successful existent life?" Here are immoderate of the apical responses:

1. "Extreme spontaneity and changeless unpredictability."

–0utlawViking

2. "Living connected a tiny tropical island. Minor goods and services tin beryllium a immense struggle, similar that 1 clip the full land was retired of printer ink and I needed to get immoderate ineligible documents sorted. Also, hurricanes fucking up your full land each fewer years is not that fun. Also having to alert to different state for aesculapian attraction that is thing much than an X-ray… oregon if the lone X-ray technician connected the land goes distant for a mates of weeks to sojourn family."

–El_mochilero

3. "I’ve known a batch of guys successful bands and radical thin to deliberation it’s attractive. Travelling each the time? Doing shows successful bars aggregate nights a week? Getting groupies? Yeah, not for me. I’d ne'er day a feline successful a set oregon a pro jock for that matter. No clip for maine and women flock to them. Yes, I’m the selfish jealous type."

–Upset_Confection_317

5. "Constant assurance sounds charismatic until you realise it tin travel with ignoring feedback oregon not admitting mistakes, and ‘being engaged each the time’ seems awesome until you spot however rapidly it leads to burnout and nary existent balance."

–DifferenceOld5038

7. "Super gregarious, ever telling comic stories, ever wanting to spell retired and bash stuff. Shush, I’m tired"

–BigToast6

8. "Love bombing."

"I dated idiosyncratic who would constitute maine a literal emotion missive each greeting done text. At archetypal it was amazing, I’d ne'er felt much treasured, but aft a fewer weeks it got exhausting. I was waking up an hr aboriginal conscionable to springiness myself capable clip to respond with much than an ‘awwww that’s truthful sweet! I emotion you too.’ 

Eventually determination was thing near to say, and it petered disconnected to your emblematic ‘good greeting babe!’"

–ashoka_akira

9. "Nymphomaniacs. People ever enactment similar it would beryllium large having idiosyncratic who wants to person enactment each the time, until you really person to woody with idiosyncratic wanting to person enactment each the time. Exhausting."

–TalkQuick

10. "Dating a rich, palmy man. They similar to marque each the decisions. They don’t similar being challenged oregon questioned. Most of them are difficult/egotistical/demanding (some oregon each of the above). It’s their satellite and you lone unrecorded successful it. For an independent, strong-willed woman, this each gets aged existent quick."

–iAmMedusa_3000

11. "I’d accidental aloofness oregon ‘go with the flow’ types. It sounds bully to maine since I thin to overthink, but past you conscionable go the idiosyncratic who handles everything erstwhile successful a relationship."

–Waffle-Crab

13. "Being nonchalant. Lots of radical emotion that but successful world it’s precise annoying. You speech to the idiosyncratic and they volition ne'er get excited, it tin look similar they don’t attraction ever ‘hm’ ‘yeah’ ‘ok’ ‘cool’."

–MeikoChii

14. "Someone idealising and romanticising you. They consecutive up don’t spot you arsenic an existent idiosyncratic who has feelings, conscionable idiosyncratic supra them who couldn’t perchance attraction arsenic overmuch arsenic they do. They don’t privation you to beryllium blessed unless it revolves astir them, you extremity up feeling liable for their well-being, and they get a monolithic ego boost disconnected of getting nether your tegument oregon being the crushed you’re upset. Ironically this idiosyncratic wasn’t adjacent little than maine oregon nether my league astatine all, conscionable incredibly insecure."

–throwawaygirl229

15. "Snuggling to autumn asleep. I’m atrocious but I request abstraction erstwhile I americium trying to sleep. I consciousness claustrophobic having idiosyncratic close there"

–ValueExisting3193

Any of your ain to add? Let america cognize successful the comments below!