"I enjoyed the communicative erstwhile I was younger, but it near a atrocious sensation successful my rima aft rewatching it."
Reddit idiosyncratic phantom_avenger precocious asked the members of r/moviecritic, "What movie is considered 'romantic' erstwhile successful world it's precise toxic?" People rapidly filled the thread with their blistery takes connected beloved rom-coms and different supposedly "heartwarming" films (that possibly didn't property truthful well). Here's what they shared:
1. "50 First Dates. She's incapable of having immoderate romanticist narration due to the fact that of her condition, and helium fundamentally took vantage of a pistillate with a intelligence disability. Imagine the implicit torture she endures daily, waking up to recognize she has a hubby and kid she's wholly incapable of remembering. She volition person to endure that torture the remainder of her life."

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2. "How astir While You Were Sleeping? She virtually allows the antheral and his household to deliberation she is his concealed fiancée, and past she falls for his brother. WTH?"

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"Sandra Bullock works for wide transit and saves a regular rider, whom she has a crush on, aft helium was mugged, but helium ends up successful a coma. His household thinks she's his fiancée, and she conscionable goes with it. She falls successful emotion with the coma guy's member aft spending truthful overmuch clip with his family. After the coma feline wakes up, they enactment up to his wedding portion everyone thinks helium has amnesia since helium doesn't admit Bullock, lone to person her backmost retired past infinitesimal confessing everything, and she ends up with the member successful the end."
3. "Mrs. Doubtfire. It turns retired that Daniel was ever susceptible of being a bully genitor and taking existent attraction of the family; helium conscionable chose not to until his woman got fed up. Then, alternatively of accepting that being a lazy man-child has consequences and trying to beryllium himself the close way, helium commits fraud and deceives this full household and the court. Still 1 of my favourite movies though."
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4. "Never Been Kissed. A teacher has feelings for a student, yet is aggravated she 'lied to him' astir being an big undercover successful the school."
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5. "Big. It's a young lad trapped successful a man's body. He kisses and has enactment with a woman, and then, aft she learns the truth, she inactive wants to beryllium with him erstwhile he's older. I enjoyed the communicative erstwhile I was younger, but it near a atrocious sensation successful my rima aft rewatching it. Who thinks of and writes that stuff?"
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6. "Overboard. Kurt Russell kidnaps Goldie Hawn and forces her into home slavery."
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"This. I retrieve watching that movie erstwhile I was a kid (I was calved successful 1993, truthful I saw this movie sometime successful the 2000s), and I conscionable couldn't wrapper my caput astir the information that helium kidnapped her, and she stayed with him?"
7. "Four Weddings and a Funeral. Carrie (Andie MacDowell) is atrocious to Charles (Hugh Grant). She invites him wedding formal buying erstwhile helium intelligibly fancies her, and this is aft they person slept together, and past invites him to her wedding too. Then she shows up to his wedding, assuming this is unexpected based connected his reaction, and past blows that up. She is simply a horrible, self-absorbed, narcissistic person. 'Is it inactive raining? I hadn't noticed.' WORST enactment transportation EVER!!"
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8. "My Best Friend's Wedding. I'm gladsome she didn't get him successful the end."
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"I conscionable consciousness atrocious for Cameron Diaz, who DOES get him successful the end. Dermot Mulroney's quality is awful. He continues to openly flirt with Jules, and 1 of his matrimony conditions for his 20-year-old fiancée (he's 30) is that she discontinue assemblage to travel him astir arsenic helium writes astir baseball. While Jules is terrible, she's benignant of doing the miss a favour by trying to divided them up."
9. "Dirty Dancing. Baby was similar 17, and Johnny was similar 25. It was wholly inappropriate, and whether helium knew it oregon not, helium was taking vantage of an highly naive teenage miss who was inactive successful precocious school. I get that it was her coming-of-age story, but what genitor wouldn't beryllium trying to support their teenage girl from hanging retired with a clump of adults astir 10 years older than her, who were hanging retired each nighttime drinking and partying?"
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10. "The 2 main characters of Serendipity are fortunate to beryllium played by John Cusack and Kate Beckinsale who person truthful overmuch chemistry due to the fact that they are atrocious radical screwing implicit their committed partners for a 2nd accidental astatine capturing the magic of a azygous evening years prior."
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11. "The Time Traveler's Wife. An extradimensional time-traveling nudist feline burglar grooms a kid to wed him erstwhile she comes of age, past traumatizes her by getting himself changeable portion breaking into somebody's location to bargain their clothes."
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12. "Sweet Home Alabama. She chooses the antheral who refused a divorcement for 15 years and was disrespectful to her for astir of the film. The aforesaid could beryllium said for The Notebook. They agreed connected nothing, and Ally was slapping him regularly. Very toxic emotion that was packaged arsenic a fantasy."
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13. "I can't basal The Notebook. It's conscionable a horrible movie that portrays toxicity arsenic romance. I had a person successful assemblage who was shocked that I hadn't seen it (I'm a large instrumentality of romcoms), and we watched it together. I was stunned the full time, and afterwards she told maine she felt similar her narration with her fellow was similar the 1 from the movie. I expressed interest due to the fact that of however toxic the narration successful the movie is, and she got truthful antiaircraft of the movie. I was shocked."
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14. "Almost Famous. You tin 'different time' maine each you want. Penny Lane and different 'groupies' were 15, 16, and 17 years aged and were being groomed and preyed upon by overmuch older men. Penny Lane was virtually sold successful a poker game. That's enactment trafficking. William is simply a 16-year-old who is besides being groomed and preyed upon for the band's affirmative PR. But we disregard each that due to the fact that of the euphony and the 'romance.'"
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15. "(500) Days of Summer. I can't judge radical inactive deliberation it's a cutesy romance flick."
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"Anybody who gets that from it isn't paying attention. He's successful emotion with Summer arsenic a concept, not a person, and she goes on with it aft making it wide that they're looking for wholly antithetic things successful life. It's a atrocious thought from the get-go."
"I was a elder successful precocious schoolhouse erstwhile this came retired and was taken successful by the twee hipster aesthetics, and was disappointed by the ending astatine the time. I deliberation it's an fantabulous movie due to the fact that it plays with viewers' expectations of romance and romanticist comedies. Like galore of us, Joseph Gordon-Levitt's quality seems similar idiosyncratic raised connected romanticist comedies and projects their idealized expectations onto the radical helium dates. Looking back, it's absorbing to spot however his expectations (and the viewers) colored the cognition of his and Deschanel's interactions."
16. "Notting Hill. Hugh seems to similar to play these men successful toxic relationships. Julia's histrion quality treats him similar crap too, ghosting him, lashing out, cheating connected her fellow with him, and faking being a nutrient eater. Red flags everywhere."
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"It has its cute moments, but erstwhile helium had to enactment similar an interviewer erstwhile helium was expected to beryllium gathering up with her was perfectly cringe. No feline would tolerate adjacent fractional the crap helium enactment up with."
17. "You've Got Mail. Tom Hanks is simply a catfish."
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"It wasn't capable that helium bankrupted her, but helium besides utilized her ain accusation to manipulate her and past love-bombed her into saying yes to a relationship. Like, however galore much reddish flags bash y'all need?"
18. "Crazy, Stupid, Love. The 'never instrumentality nary for an answer' messaging of that movie is truly hard to ticker successful hindsight."
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19. "Sleepless successful Seattle is simply a fearfulness movie."
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"Meg Ryan’s quality throws distant her fiancé due to the fact that she fell successful emotion with idiosyncratic she'd ne'er adjacent met successful idiosyncratic and ne'er adjacent spoke to until the precise extremity of the film?"
20. "Love, Actually. The movie is conscionable 90% limerence, stalking, fat-shaming, workplace harassment, and wide misogyny. There's a 'fat joke' astir each 2 minutes of the movie, astir astir a slim, beauteous young woman, with the remainder said arsenic cruel insults straight to overweight characters' faces. The 2 plots involving pb pistillate characters are depressing — a woman with a cheating husband, and a pistillate who is dumped by her day erstwhile she takes a telephone from her unwell brother. Echoing the different men, adjacent the small lad doesn't really cognize the miss helium 'loves' and has ne'er spoken to her. It's conscionable truthful toxic, and it's depressing that it's truthful beloved."
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21. "Something Borrowed. Who knew that infidelity and betrayal were cute? Damn weirdos."
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"It's astir champion friends wherever 1 person lusts aft the different friend's man. I didn't deliberation Kate Hudson’s quality did thing wrong, but they made her retired to beryllium the atrocious friend."
22. "Runaway Bride (1999). Julia Roberts's quality was specified a prime maine girl; it was awful. And she did it to her champion friend, too, flirting with her hubby unapologetically conscionable due to the fact that helium was her ex. She adjacent gets called retired by Richard Gere's character. She loved to consciousness loved and special, but she didn't attraction who got wounded erstwhile she grew bushed of them. She ran distant from them earlier the wedding due to the fact that her quality had a beardown fearfulness of commitment. The worst quality ever. Extremely selfish."
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23. Finally: "Grease. Danny disrespects Sandy to her face, cheats connected her successful the creation competition, forcibly kisses her afterwards, and ne'er apologizes oregon acknowledges what helium did wrong. And past astatine the end, Sandy is the 1 who's expected to alteration for him?"
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What bash you think? Do you agree? Do you vehemently disagree? Are determination immoderate movies you'd similar to add? Explain your reasoning successful the comments oregon archer america astir a "romantic" movie you deliberation is toxic successful this anonymous signifier here.
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