"No One Is Hot Enough To Overcome That": 19 People Are Revealing The Seemingly Trivial Behaviors That Gave Them The "Ick" On A First Date

First dates are, of course, each astir impressions. However, erstwhile getting to cognize someone, it's casual to get the "ick." No substance however trivial a behaviour oregon wont mightiness seem, determination are conscionable immoderate reasons wherefore a 2nd day is disconnected the table...

That's wherefore erstwhile Redditor u/benjamin_frfr asked, "What is the pettiest crushed you refused a 2nd date?" hundreds of radical shared the seemingly silly reasons they discontinue seeing someone. From toilet insubstantial monitoring to fake accents — present are 19 of their champion responses:

If you've ever refused to spell connected a 2nd day with idiosyncratic for a petty reason, consciousness escaped to archer america astir it utilizing this anonymous form!

1. "He meowed astatine my feline wrong: We were talking connected the phone, and my feline meowed to get my attention. He had the audacity to meow back, and it was excessively high-pitched. I conscionable couldn’t bash that for the remainder of my life."

2. "First date: We went to a bully restaurant, and determination betwixt the 2nd and 3rd course, she told maine that she likes to gully pictures connected the ablution partition with her strands of hairsbreadth that had fallen retired and permission them connected the partition to dry."

—u/mjt1105

3. "She pulled retired a measuring portion to spot if I was truly successful information 6'4". After she confirmed it, I told her to leave."

"I person shorter friends, and I basal with them successful solidarity, nary substance however horny I am."

—u/eyeholemayne

4. "I went connected a day with a pistillate who sounded similar Minnie Mouse. She was drop-dead gorgeous, had an awesome body, and was into me, too..."

5. "I stopped by his location to pee earlier dinner. He told maine I utilized excessively overmuch toilet insubstantial and went successful to inspect my toilet insubstantial quadrate usage."

"He besides talked astir my being his housewife soon afterward. It was conscionable a truly atrocious time."

—u/Itscompanypolicyman

6. "I was rejected for a 2nd day due to the fact that for our archetypal date, we hung retired astatine his spot and played video games. He challenged maine to Mario Kart, and I went undefeated, truthful helium kicked maine retired and said helium ne'er wanted to spot maine again."

—u/ZafrinaKuu

7. "I was refused a 2nd day by a miss who seemed VERY into maine until she recovered retired I didn't similar state music. Her full demeanor changed, and she bailed instantly after. She aboriginal texted maine to archer maine she didn't privation to spot maine again due to the fact that 'disliking state euphony is simply a reddish flag.'"

8. "I went connected a large day with a girl, and we were truly vibing. We texted a batch aft and planned connected going connected a 2nd date. She past recovered retired my zodiac motion is Sagittarius, and I kid you not, she said, 'Oh, I could ne'er day a Sagittarius,' and ghosted maine immediately."

—u/Briscoeag

9. "I erstwhile walked distant from a ace blistery aerobics teacher due to the fact that she kept telling maine however Linkin Park was the top stone set successful the past of music. I cognize it's petty, but I cannot accent however overmuch I despise Linkin Park."

"No 1 is blistery capable to flooded that level of atrocious taste."

—u/AumShinrikyoDawg

10. "She told maine she was an avid reader. I am, too, truthful I thought it was thing that we'd person successful communal and could speech about. On our archetypal date, she told maine that she reads 100+ books a year, but can't retrieve thing astir them. She had conscionable 'read' 1 of my favourite books, truthful I asked her astir the main character; she had nary recollection. I asked her astir the humanities setting, and I got a blank look successful return."

11. "His ears were waxy and dirty, to the constituent wherever I could easy spot the grime."

"He was a good-looking feline and different cleanable and smelled good, but I’m not kissing ears similar that."

—u/Competitive_One_6298

12. "Someone refused to spot ME again due to the fact that I had ne'er watched Star Wars."

"It wasn’t similar I had purposely avoided it; I was calved aft it came out, and by the clip the prequels were released, I was already successful the dark.

I conjecture it was the guy's favourite film. I find the full happening comic due to the fact that I’m a immense movie fan, and helium could person turned it into an accidental to present maine to thing helium truly liked, but alternatively utilized it arsenic an excuse to ne'er spot maine again."

—u/I_need_a_date_plz

13. "He was ordering nutrient and told the waiter helium wanted jalapeños connected his burger— the mode helium said jalapeños was unexpected due to the fact that helium abruptly developed a Spanish accent erstwhile asking for the jalapeños."

14. "I deliberately wore amusive earrings that I felt expressed my property — 1 dangled similar an mean earring, and the different had a cuff that attached to the rear lobe."

"We met for coffee. He turned retired to beryllium very blimpish and very judgmental. He spent fractional the day staring astatine my earrings, with waves of disapproval coming disconnected him. I hadn't worn them arsenic a test, but if I had, helium would person failed.

I'll ever beryllium grateful for that acceptable of amusive earrings. They saved maine a batch of clip by helping maine spot what a narrow-minded jerk helium was close from the beginning."

—u/BookLuvr7

15. "She opened a portion of gum and threw the wrapper retired the window. Then, aft dinner, she opened different portion of gum, this clip with her mouth..."

"She spat the wrapper retired of her rima onto the level of my car. I'd seen capable and was done with her by that point."

—u/EyeCanFeelYou

16. "This feline rapidly chomped down the cocoa I PAID for america to try. During the date, we bought chill chocolates of antithetic flavors truthful we could effort each other's choices. I truly wanted to effort his and told him so, truthful helium took a wound of it, enactment it down to effort mine, and FINISHED his afterwards. It was specified a elemental act, but it spoke volumes astir his quality erstwhile helium didn't adjacent deliberation doubly to stock it oregon prosecute with maine successful trying his cocoa similar I did with him."

17. "Her name: She utilized 1 sanction utilized connected the app, and different IRL; not excessively large of a deal, I recognize why."

"But her existent sanction was the aforesaid arsenic my mom's. I couldn't bash it, tried that years ago, and it was acold excessively awkward erstwhile getting intimate."

—u/Large_Sexologist_587

18. "He dumped his java each implicit himself, casually licked it disconnected his fingers, past deed maine with, 'Would you beryllium huffy if I stared astatine different girls astatine the pool?'"

"Five minutes later, the waitress dropped a metallic tray, and helium FLINCHED and fto retired a full-on shriek — that was it for me."

—u/Decent_Trust3

19. Finally, "The dude had nary shame; helium farted A LOT — successful public, successful his car, you sanction it. It was disgusting. They weren't adjacent audible; helium conscionable fto soundless ones retired whenever helium wanted."

Did immoderate of these stories astonishment you? What's the pettiest crushed wherefore you refused to spell connected a 2nd day with someone? Tell america astir it successful the comments oregon reply anonymously utilizing the signifier below!

Note: Some responses person been edited for magnitude and/or clarity.