"I Blocked And Deleted Her Number As Soon As I Got In My Car": 15 Disastrous First Dates That Made Men Say "Absolutely Never Again"

While going connected a archetypal day with idiosyncratic tin marque radical accidental oregon bash weird things due to the fact that of nerves, which is wholly normal, sometimes radical instrumentality things to a full different level that volition prohibit different day from happening. So erstwhile we asked the BuzzFeed Community, "Single men, what made you decidedly NOT privation a 2nd day with a pistillate you went retired with?" truthful galore of them shared their idiosyncratic experiences. Here's what they said below:

1. "I went connected a day with a pistillate astir 35 years ago. We were having dinner, and during the meal, she inquired astir my vocation path. She truthful bluntly followed it up by saying she needed to wed idiosyncratic who could support her successful the manner she had grown up in. I answered her question, said, 'I’m not definite if my vocation way is champion suited for you,' paid for the meal, and near her astatine the restaurant. Figured she had capable wealth with her manner to beryllium capable to get location connected her own."

2. "We had met astatine a nine and deed it disconnected truly well, and decided to spell connected a movie day the pursuing weekend. We’d gone to spot a comedy, but she didn’t find immoderate of it comic (disappointing, but not an outright deal-breaker). After the film, we spent immoderate clip talking, whereupon she started going connected astir however 3 of her cousins were progressive successful organized crime. She’d said that portion she was easygoing, radical who messed with her were going to person a occupation (due to said gangster cousins). I called her the adjacent time and told her successful the nicest, gentlest mode imaginable that I wasn’t feeling it and didn’t privation to discarded her time. She’d responded by saying, 'Was it thing I said?' To which I couldn’t assistance but say, 'It’s not you, it’s me.'"

—Anonymous 52, Quebec

3. "We met done enactment and seemed to click, truthful I suggested lunch. It went fine, bully conversation. Walking backmost to our building, she said she needed to halt astatine the cause store to prime up something, truthful she started to accidental goodbye. I said, 'No problem, I tin halt with you.' We walked to the pharmacy, wherever she picked up a medicine for her vaginal infection. I was genuinely confused: Was she advertizing 'no sex' with me, oregon that she was having enactment with others, oregon what? Like, I’d ne'er person a pistillate halt successful with maine erstwhile I prime up jock itch cream."

4. "I was recently divorced and met a pistillate portion astatine a canine parkland with my dogs. We deed it disconnected and stayed overmuch longer astatine the canine parkland than anticipated, conscionable talking and getting to cognize each other. Near the end, she asked if I’d similar to spell to meal with her aboriginal that night. I agreed. I amusement up to dinner, and she was already determination and astir instantly hands maine a CD of each her favourite songs that she had burned for maine betwixt the canine parkland and dinner. Weird, but ok. She past starts talking astir matrimony and however she needs to person children ASAP. At this point, I’m starting to deliberation she’s not the one."

"We decorativeness dinner, and I’m reasoning the day is over. She asks maine if I’m going to locomotion her to her car. I accidental sure. We get to her car, and she asks maine if I privation to spell to her place, and I said I truly needed to get location to my dogs. She asked if I was going to buss her, and she conscionable gave maine a full-on French buss and said she can’t hold to spot maine again. I ne'er called her back. She went connected to get artificially inseminated and had her kid. Still nary husband."

—Anonymous, 53, Redmond, WA

5. "We went to a bar. As we were leaving, she drunkenly knocked implicit a solid of vino connected the crushed (patio/fire pit area). I archer her, and she keeps walking (belligerently). I spell inside, archer the bartender, apologize to the portion proprietor (inside getting her person one), and wage for it. She stands extracurricular yelling astir however I shouldn’t bash that. It was the past date. I won’t tolerate that benignant of embarrassment (her attitude, not the drunken stumble)."

6. "I was asked retired by a pistillate I met respective years prior. We were expected to spell connected a hike. She decided to invitation maine implicit instead. When I got there, she told maine her son, whom she lived with, didn’t consciousness harmless for her to beryllium successful the woods unsocial with maine but felt harmless to beryllium unsocial with her astatine his house. She besides told maine she makes each decisions astir whom she should day and wherever she goes connected a date. While there, her 30-year-old lad came successful with what seemed to beryllium an underage miss and introduced her arsenic his girlfriend. I stayed for different 5 minutes and decided to leave. I approached his country with the doorway wide unfastened and said It was bully to conscionable you. His woman was lying adjacent to an AK-47 firearm and galore different guns. I asked him if the firearm was real, and helium said perfectly yes. I high-tailed retired determination arsenic accelerated arsenic I could. I blocked and deleted her fig arsenic soon arsenic I got successful my car. That was the past clip I saw her."

—Anonymous

7. "We had immoderate flirty banter implicit drinks. She adjacent accepted my invitation to travel backmost to mine, and past she proceeded to spell done each my cabinets and drawers. Her parent had told her thing astir however you tin archer if a antheral is hiding things by however helium keeps his cabinets. I’m not truly definite what the mentation was, but she virtually went room furniture by room cabinet, seeing what was successful them. I was excessively successful daze to accidental anything. Plus, I had thing to fell and benignant of wanted to spot if she’d beryllium brazen capable to unfastened each azygous one. She was. I told her it was getting late, and I called her a cab."

8. "I went retired with a pistillate who spent the full meal talking connected the phone. This was close erstwhile the archetypal cellphone came out. She wanted each the radical successful the edifice to spot that she had this phone. After dinner, arsenic we were walking retired to the car, she told maine however overmuch amusive she had and however absorbing I was, adjacent though we hardly spoke. We got successful the car, and wrong 2 minutes, she was wholly bare and began trying to unzip my pants, truthful she could spell to town. We were successful the mediate of a engaged parking batch with radical walking around. She said that this excited her. Then each of a abrupt her telephone rang and she sat close up, and started a five-minute speech with someone, and she bragged to this idiosyncratic that she was bare successful this parking batch and was going to enactment connected me, and she hoped radical would see."

"After this call, I decided to extremity the date, and she was intelligibly angry. I took her location and ne'er saw her again."

—cheesysinger262

9. "First date, truthful I picked a bully edifice with tons of options. She looked astatine the paper and said, ‘I don’t similar this stuff, tin we spell get pizza?’ So, okay, pizza’s cool, who doesn’t similar pizza? As we walked down the block, she told maine she didn’t devour immoderate vegetables ever. Only pizza and chickenhearted fingers. Red emblem fig one. Over our slices of pizza, she proceeded to archer maine each astir her occupation cleaning up infirmary surgical rooms post-surgery… successful each its gory detail. That was capable for me. No 2nd day necessary, thanks."

10. "She was a blistery coworker who was ever flirting with maine and each different man. We went retired for drinks aft enactment with her and different pistillate coworker who — it turns retired — is her sister-in-law! She was each implicit me, cooing and batting her eyes, saying precise suggestive things. When we each walked retired together, she was clinging to me, holding my hand. Then it came retired that she was married. Married!! Gross. I was horrified due to the fact that I enactment with the guy. Felt atrocious for him; she is not a bully wife."

—Anonymous

11. "I was acceptable up with a friend’s sister successful college. She was a knockout, and I felt beauteous fortunate to beryllium going retired with her. While waiting for the movie to start, she pointed retired an interracial mates (Black/white) successful beforehand of us. She asked me, 'What did I deliberation astir 'that?'' (motioning towards the couple). Partially shocked/confused by the question, I answered, 'I mean, I don’t person a occupation with it. My parent is Mexican and my dada is white,' She said, 'Oh, good that’s different!' But I didn’t truly judge her. I don’t truly retrieve what other we talked astir that night. As a California lad going to assemblage successful the South, it was 1 of my archetypal experiences witnessing that benignant of nonstop racism and backward beliefs. We didn’t spell retired again."

12. "I went retired with a pistillate who asked maine retired connected her past time of work. It was truly hard to accidental no. She was nice, but we didn’t person a batch successful common, truthful I figured I would springiness it a shot. We went to the movies, during the previews, a Minion showed up, and she went connected and connected astir however she hates Minions. Maybe I’m crazy, but it was astatine that infinitesimal that I knew determination would beryllium nary fig two."

—Anonymous, 33 Philadelphia

13. "Classmate successful college; seemed beauteous cool. I had a person bail connected maine to a Blink-182 and Green Day performance successful Vegas, truthful I asked her to spell truthful the summons wouldn’t spell to waste. She agreed and went, but earlier long, it was evident she was evidently not having a bully time. She kept appearing much and much uncomfortable, truthful yet I asked if she wanted to leave, and she readily said, 'Yes!' We near earlier Blink could adjacent instrumentality the stage. Afterwards, arsenic I was taking her home, I asked what connected world was wrong."

14. "We worked successful the aforesaid office. We went retired to meal and backmost to her apartment, and began making retired connected the couch. It was similar making retired with a bath towel. Nothing there. She said, 'I don’t privation to walk the nighttime alone.' I said, 'Well, your roommate volition beryllium backmost soon,' and left. We saw each different astatine enactment and ne'er mentioned the date."

—Anonymous, 80, Moab,UT

15. And finally, "I really had a 2nd day with a college-educated pistillate who was precise nice. Partway done the evening, I began to consciousness ill, truthful I chopped the evening short. Fearing that I mightiness person been coming down with COVID, I tested myself erstwhile I got home. I tested positive. When I past did the close happening by calling her to pass her, she became rather angry. I apologized for perchance exposing her to the virus, reasoning that that was what she was upset about. I asked her wherefore she was reacting truthful angrily to the news, due to the fact that again, I felt similar I had handled the concern correctly, she told maine that what angered her was the specified information that I tested myself! (Huh?)"

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