Former "Side Chicks" Revealed Why They Had Sex With Married People, And I'm Actually Shocked By Some Of These

3. "Back successful my freshman twelvemonth of college, I was the different woman. I had been successful a semipermanent narration with a feline that broke my heart. It conscionable truthful happened that the time aft our breakup, I had my archetypal lab. My laboratory spouse was a shot player, beauteous hot, and besides successful a committed relationship. I was successful an highly susceptible authorities astatine that clip — delight cognize that. My laboratory spouse suggested we Skype to survey together. We did, and it ended up going a antithetic direction. We slept unneurotic a time oregon 2 later. That was my archetypal and lone one-night stand, if you tin telephone it that. Anyway, I did cognize helium was successful a relationship, and I adjacent asked him astir however she’d consciousness astir it. His effect to maine was, 'Don’t interest astir her.' We went done with it, and I’ve regretted it ever since."

—Anonymous, 32, Tennessee

14. "I was madly successful emotion with him. Before I ever met him, his ex had accused him of sleeping with his ain sister and champion friend. He 'eye f*cked' each pistillate helium looked at, apparently. (I was his lone infidelity, for the record.) When I came along, and we dilatory became friends implicit the years, helium realized that his narration was not mean oregon healthy."

"Eventually, I fell successful emotion with him, and we did transverse the line. I knew she was there, and that I was the different woman. We some felt immense guilt, but it was masked and distorted by love, excitement, and happiness. He and I parted ways aft a fewer months, didn’t enactment successful touch, past helium got divorced astir 9 months later, aft telling her astir us. We recovered our mode backmost to each different aft the particulate settled, and we are going connected 3 years adjacent month. His household and friends and my household and friends each cognize that I was the 'other woman' and helium was the 'other man,' and portion galore of them were precise hesitant to clasp america astatine first, they each afloat enactment america present due to the fact that they spot that we are genuinely blessed unneurotic and dainty each different well. 

I americium atrocious we wounded radical — I privation our way didn’t impact that. I americium besides thankful to beryllium alive, insanely happy, and successful love. I tin woody with the scarlet letter, the decease threats, the pitchers of h2o connected the head, and the car-keying. I wronged someone, and I unrecorded with that. And I don’t regret, for a second, wherever my beingness is aft each the choices I person made."