17 Times People Realised They Didn't Like Their 'Friends'

Recently, justNoah10 asked r/AskReddit, "What's the fastest mode you realised you were successful the incorrect person group?" So we thought we'd stock immoderate of the apical responses.

1. "They started having a speech successful beforehand of maine astir however excited they each were for the upcoming formation trip. I hadn’t been invited."

–Darth-Skvader

2. "The infinitesimal you realise you're lone included erstwhile it's convenient for them, not erstwhile it really matters"

–Nimi_k

3. "Was hiking with 5 friends and each of them wanted to leap a obstruction into a protected snake breeding country to find snakes. I was the lone 1 who refused."

–SpiralCee

4. "When the signifier becomes obvious: radical get picked isolated the infinitesimal they’re not successful the room, and there’s hardly immoderate genuine support. That’s usually the sign. It was equivalent to Mean Girls, lone these are women who are successful their 40s and 50s. I’m the lone 1 who near the radical due to the fact that of this, and successful the 2 years since I’ve ne'er looked back."

–glittering_prize_gla

5. "Church friends ghosted maine erstwhile my slump didn't conscionable vanish."

–Helphaer

6. "When each they privation to bash is speech astir their problems and don't perceive erstwhile you talk."

–c0mbatkar1

7. "When you realised they each planned a nighttime retired with each other. You weren't invited and saw it done their Instagram/Snapchat."

–toxicdelug3

8. "When they would usage your beingness arsenic the gag wrong the group, idiosyncratic to marque amusive of and laughter astatine collectively. Stupid me. I was wondering wherefore I ever felt upset and hated myself each clip I went location aft hanging retired with them, reasoning wherefore couldn't I beryllium amended and not a gag of a person. Nah. Just incorrect person group."

–upsidedowngladiator

9. "As a guy, erstwhile I hung retired with a antithetic radical of friends that had each known each different from childhood."

"We were shooting hoops and they were each incredibly supportive and encouraging to each other. They really seemed to attraction astir each other. The person radical I grew with is incredibly competitory and are perpetually putting each different down, calling each different slurs, adjacent if its conscionable 'a joke'. Realised aft 20 years what a person radical is really expected to beryllium like."

–SaveMeDatCorn

10. "Moved little than an hr away. I drove retired to them to astatine slightest 3 weekends a period and 95% of them ne'er bothered to sojourn my country 1 time."

–tmps1993

11. "Decided to halt being the 1 to instigate hanging out, to spot if anyone would invitation maine to anything. Literally haven't talked to anyone successful that radical since, astir 15 years going."

"Also started noticing they'd invitation maine to things little and less, ne'er texted maine first, and lone responded if I had tea. Sometimes the lone crushed radical are friends with you is proximity. For reference, I looked it up and the closest person was a 20 min thrust and farthest was 35 min. 

The disappointment was from the times we'd instrumentality roadworthy trips to sojourn each different erstwhile we were successful antithetic colleges and however post-graduation the friendships faded truthful fast. I worth the bully times we each had and support them each connected FB, but it is disappointing that idiosyncratic you were truthful adjacent to ne'er checks successful anymore unless there's gossip."

–VaginalOdour

12. "I was everyone's machine tech guy, location moving guy, wealth lending guy, writer 'lending' guy, etc. My Dad pointed retired that I definite bash person a batch of children to support. That was what I needed to hear. Been happily doing my ain happening ever since."

–koopz_ay

13. "I asked to articulation their D&D crippled and they said girls don't play D&D. I'm a girl, good I was astatine the time. I'm an aged pistillate present and inactive pissed astatine those assholes."

–wwaxwork

14. "So, it was erstwhile I realised that we are lone friends due to the fact that we are hating connected the aforesaid person. Then they commencement to hatred me, origin I chose to not hatred anyone anymore. Actually, I support the caller unfortunate of their hatred… they don't speech to maine anymore."

–Both-Independent-681

15. "When they made amusive of different person for fractional an hr aft helium got an unthinkable caller job. Not bully natured ribbing. We’re talking afloat connected 'what a discarded of time. X implicit present needs to beryllium smarter than everyone. What’s a matter, excessively bully for a existent job?' Yeah, fuck that. This was aft they made amusive of maine for winning a large grant successful my vocation and fundamentally convincing maine I was fortunate and it was fluke."

–Grill_Only_Outside

16. "Less of a radical and much of an idiosyncratic person. I felt I had to hole however to represent however precisely my beingness was going good anterior to hanging retired with them. I realised it wasn't a friendship, it was a competition."

–llama-impregnator

17. "I discontinue drinking successful September 2024. My household and friends supported my decision."

"I knew I would person to debar a definite person radical (very overmuch drink-related activities). I did archer 1 person from that group. She complained astir my not drinking for astir eleven months.

In December 2025 we were to person luncheon astatine a section café. She wanted 2 saccharine things connected the constricted paper (four things to take from), and knew it would beryllium excessively much, truthful she wanted america to share. I don't attraction for sweets, truthful I declined. She exploded, losing her temper and raising her voice. I honestly deliberation she was aggravated that she could nary longer portion astatine luncheon with maine (we often overdid it).

This took spot months ago, and if I had received ANY connection from her I would person chalked it down to a atrocious day. Now I realise it was the not drinking, and that she mislaid her temper successful a tiny venue."

–Hallucinationing

Any of your ain to add? Let america cognize successful the comments below!