16 Women Who Decided To Meet Up With The Men In Their DMs Are Revealing What Really Happened

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1. "Last year, 1 of my apical 5 fans connected OnlyFans flew my champion person and maine to Cancun. Meeting done OnlyFans is NOT allowed, but obviously, you leap into immoderate different chat erstwhile you spot a guy's serious. Anyway! The feline was a swinger (and truthful are we), and helium wanted to invitation america to a swingers' edifice successful Mexico. Both my champion person and I were allowed to bring idiosyncratic else, but they had to wage for their ain tickets. Our tickets, and 70% of the edifice expenses (more oregon less) were paid for. We paid for immoderate activities and a mates of tours. The acquisition was underwhelming. He was drugged astir each the clip and could hardly signifier afloat sentences. He was intelligibly waaaaay excessively tense to bash thing sexual."

"We danced, played around, and satisfied a mates of his fantasies without overmuch trouble, but I honestly don't deliberation helium remembers fractional of it. The edifice was terrible, peculiarly for a 5-star hotel, and I decidedly DON'T urge it. 

This feline was a lottery victor (or truthful helium said)."

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5. "I person a fistful of times. The astir caller 1 was an MLB subordinate I met connected Raya. We had already gone connected 2 dates erstwhile helium was successful my city, past helium flew maine crossed the state to his home. I met immoderate of his friends and had a decent time, but helium was a small weird (has a atrocious estimation for being an egomaniac), and it ne'er truly turned into anything. At my request, I slept successful a abstracted chamber with a abstracted bathroom, which helium happily obliged (as immoderate decent antheral would). Money wasn't a portion of it. He paid for the first-class flights, car service, food, and my dog's boarding, but helium didn't instrumentality maine buying oregon anything."

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6. "I person galore stories, but 1 that sticks out. For a fewer weeks, I stayed astatine The Mercer Hotel, The Greenwich Hotel, and places similar that, successful suites larger than my flat that outgo arsenic overmuch per nighttime arsenic my rent does successful a month. There was tons of truly bully nutrient — Omakase, oysters, learning the antithetic types of caviar, learning that I LOVE to portion a bully Sancerre. I've been talented purses that outgo my rent conscionable by walking past them successful a shop, giving them a longer glimpse than usual, and being asked if I similar them. This feline was precocious divorced, had respective places successful NYC, and his location was a $12 cardinal loft successful the West Village. We inactive support successful touch. He conscionable invited maine to Florida past week. I grew up successful a trailer parkland successful agrarian Michigan. I ne'er pictured I'd spot astir of what I have."

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7. "This is years and years ago. I was astir 21, and we'd met successful person. This dude was allegedly from immoderate affluent Italian family. He wanted to alert maine retired to Italy, and astatine first, I agreed to the escaped trip. Then it turned strange. He wanted to publication maine a one-way summons (he claimed helium would publication the instrumentality later). He didn't privation maine to enactment with him, but alternatively successful an flat that I was not allowed to leave. I would not get to spot his location oregon conscionable immoderate of his family, wouldn't beryllium retired with him successful public, and would not get to telephone my household oregon friends. Based connected each the weirdness, I pulled out, arsenic it sounded similar helium was fundamentally looking to imprison maine arsenic immoderate benignant of weird enactment slave. And erstwhile I raised concerns with this weirdness, helium tried to bribe maine with, 'I'll get you truthful galore gifts. Do you similar Hermes, Gucci, etc.?'"

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8. "Technically, I wasn't flown anywhere, and it wasn't a rando who 'slid into my DMs', but alternatively a dating site. I went connected 2 dates with a spot money guy, and this was my experience. It was hilarious that this feline tried to play disconnected his parents' abrogation location arsenic his own. It was evidently not his by looking astatine the decor choices. I met him astatine 'his' location to spell skiing connected our archetypal date. I had amended conversations with the liftees than I did with him. All helium did was effort to impressment me, talking astir being invited to Britney Spears' day enactment backmost successful the day. I gave him 1 much accidental due to the fact that I figured possibly helium was tense connected the archetypal date."

"We went retired to luncheon connected our 2nd date, and his ma called. Not lone did helium answer, but they talked for 45 minutes astir wherever they'd beryllium flying to adjacent — arsenic if ignoring maine would impressment me. I waited for him to get disconnected the phone. Without saying a word, I looked astatine my bare wrist (I don't deterioration a watch), and past walked out."

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9. "I met idiosyncratic astatine a friend's wedding, and we hooked up. We followed each different connected Instagram, and helium flew maine retired to NYC for my birthday. We saw a Broadway show, a performance of a set helium likes, and had meal with our communal friends. However, helium was sober for similar 10 minutes of the full thing; it was wild. Since we hooked up the archetypal nighttime we met, helium benignant of expected it this travel too, which lone happened partially due to the fact that helium was truthful drunk the archetypal night. The 2nd night, helium was going to support going retired for drugs, truthful I went backmost to the edifice astatine similar 2:30 a.m. It was the lone happening of the benignant I've ever done, and present it's a chaotic communicative I tin tell."

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10. "I met a feline astir my property (22 backmost then) connected Reddit. I had ne'er earnestly dated anyone astatine this point, but helium told maine helium wanted to conscionable me. Initially, helium wanted maine to alert to him. He was from a affluent household and lived successful a precise bully countryside mansion that he'd shown maine erstwhile we utilized to video call, but I was a small spot skeptical, truthful we agreed to conscionable successful a antithetic metropolis successful my country. I was fractional expecting to beryllium kidnapped, truthful I don't cognize wherefore I had agreed to it, but helium was really conscionable a regular dude. He was highly shy, but a bully person. We spent a week unneurotic traveling around, went to 3 antithetic cities, slept successful immoderate fancy hotels, ate successful renowned restaurants, got VIP entree to places, took chopper rides, and stayed successful a backstage compartment successful the mountains."

"I deliberation helium genuinely conscionable wanted a friend. From our galore chats, I could consciousness helium felt rather lonely. We had sex, which I initiated, but helium lone cared astir however I felt and ne'er fto maine bash thing for him. In general, I was blessed to amusement him astir and marque him smile, but helium didn't talk overmuch oregon amusement overmuch emotion. At immoderate point, I felt blameworthy that helium was paying for everything without asking for thing successful return, truthful yet I insisted connected splitting the bills.

After a week of what felt similar a movie, helium went backmost home, and I cried for 3 days nonstop. My roommates really got worried. Oh, and the splitting the bills portion near maine with 3 maxed-out recognition cards, which I struggled to wage for the adjacent six months. 

After helium got back, we continued talking, but little and less. He offered to assistance maine with money, but I felt blameworthy again and declined. All I got from him was a beauteous bully ringing and a bracelet. He told maine they were truly costly and to beryllium cautious walking successful nationalist with them, but I ne'er bothered to check. They are much invaluable to maine arsenic a reminder of our bully times.

Sometime aboriginal successful the aforesaid year, I met my existent wife, and we've been unneurotic ever since. She teases maine to this time due to the fact that I chose her implicit a millionaire.

In each seriousness, though, I anticipation he's good and recovered idiosyncratic who makes him happy. I haven't heard of him successful years. I tried reaching retired astatine immoderate point, but ne'er got a reply. I inactive get a spot affectional and interest if he's okay."

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11. "I followed a YouTuber connected Instagram. He wasn't truly my type, but I enjoyed his content. He followed back. Then we started reacting to each other's Instagram stories. Completely harmless. This went connected for 5 years oregon so. One day, we texted much than usual, and helium suggested we conscionable successful London arsenic helium had work-related things to bash successful the UK. For context: He lives successful the States, portion I'm from a European country. So helium booked maine a formation and adjacent my ain edifice room. I didn't truly request my ain room, though. It was a beauteous weekend, but thing much than that. We tried to conscionable again aggregate times, but it conscionable didn't enactment out. We inactive travel each different and adjacent respond to each other's societal media content, but that's it. I'm successful a precise blessed narration now, and helium adjacent likes the pictures of maine with my boyfriend."

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12. "When I was overmuch younger, I did person 1 feline invitation maine retired to sojourn his hometown via bid since it was comparatively adjacent to my location. He booked my summons and picked maine up from the bid station. We had been talking to and seeing each different for a portion earlier I agreed to this. He was not precisely wealthy, but helium made much than I did then, and helium paid for everything we did, though helium was precise inexpensive and chiefly wanted to bent retired astatine his house. He organized immoderate activities, but I could archer helium was not truly invested successful me. I was inactive rather young and inexperienced regarding relationships, truthful I didn't truly see him trying to propulsion maine for enactment and was naive capable to deliberation that helium really wanted to earnestly day and link with maine connected a deeper level."

"He didn't privation to beryllium seen successful nationalist with maine oregon instrumentality maine connected a 'nicer' day successful his hometown due to the fact that helium didn't privation to beryllium seen with maine without maine being 'dressed better.' He had precocious expectations and fundamentally wanted a supermodel and casual sex, portion not truly looking overmuch amended himself oregon bringing thing to the table. 

Of course, helium expected sex, and helium fundamentally chopped the travel abbreviated erstwhile helium realized that I was not consenting to person enactment without a committed relationship. That was astir 16 years ago, and ever since then, earlier yet getting married, I had ne'er allowed a antheral to wage for thing remotely substantial, invitation maine over, oregon effort to restrict our dates due to the fact that helium did not privation to beryllium seen with maine for immoderate reason. Moreover, I made it wide from the get-go that I was not having enactment aboriginal connected successful the relationship. It allowed maine to weed retired trash similar this antheral until I yet recovered a due gentleman."

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13. "I was not technically flown out, but I person had my time instrumentality a large crook doubly due to the fact that of a affluent fella. Once, successful California, a person and I were successful Malibu and walked past this barroom wherever guys were drinking successful the outdoor area. They stopped america to chat and invited america to a precise swank enactment that night. Rich radical are wild. That enactment opened my eyes to a lot. I saw a precise unusual four-way successful passing. This feline was chatting maine up and asking for my hand. I thought helium was going to beryllium cute and buss it to accidental goodbye. Nope. He did the fastest enactment of coke I person ever witnessed...off my hand."

"The 2nd time, I was successful the favored store, this feline started up a conversation. He invited maine to luncheon astatine this precise fancy restaurant, and since helium could archer I was skeptical, helium said, 'I'll conscionable you there,' and helium did. He treated maine to immoderate of the freshest seafood I've had successful a while, large drinks, and past we met up astatine different barroom and danced. It was each chill until helium told maine what helium does for a living. I was with 1 of the area's biggest cause dealers. In hindsight, the mode helium kept sliding radical wealth should person tipped maine off."

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